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How grossly mistaken many, even the best of the fathers, who consider it necessary to share themselves with children with austerity, severity, inaccessible importance! They think this to arouse respect for themselves and arouse it. Still, respect is cold, fearful, trembling, and thereby turn them away from themselves and unwittingly accustom them to secrecy and deceit. - V. G. Belinsky